MEMBERS' DATING ADVICE & SAFETY TIPS (1,400+)

• The only sure way to find out is for you both to get retested for all STD's

  So you discovered you have an STD and its impacted your dating life tremendously. Now you have the ethical responsibility of disclosing your status to ... For detail, click here.

• If you suspect that you may have an STD, go see the doc before laying down with a new lover

  Living with a STD is tough, but it is tougher for the other person that you didn't have an STD until you came along. If ... For detail, click here.

• If you are going to claim that you are classy and sophisticated, please provide at least some appropriate photographic and anecdotal evidence.

  1. There is nothing more irritating than reading a profile asserting the ambition to find someone for a serious relationship and family, only to find ... For detail, click here.

• Never Ask for a Second Date Before the Dinner

  Neither person on the date should ask for a second date before the dinner check arrives. Asking for a second date before the check arrives ... For detail, click here.

• Avoiding a log of sugar is key if you have HSV or HPV

  If you are living with HSV or HPV it is best to keep your immune system strong at all times. I have found eating a ... For detail, click here.

• Moving foward

  - Don't rush into a relationship because of circumstances - Don't listen to the negative thoughts in your head about yourself - Give yourself time ... For detail, click here.

• Don't send "Winks" - Get Better Results!

  Nothing kills the excitement of getting a notice of a message waiting, than to see that it's a "wink". The fact that it's a wink ... For detail, click here.

• For strong independent women - what to text back, write back, how to speak to men on dates

  Hey ladies, I hope you all take the time to read this post because I wish I had read it a few weeks back. I'm ... For detail, click here.

• Wash your hands

  Hygiene is one of the most important things I look for on a first date (well any date). There was a time where my date ... For detail, click here.

• Finding out their likes or interests and acknowledging them will make your messages stand out

  Try being "out of the box" or original with your introduction message to someone. Take the time to look at their profile and note a ... For detail, click here.